How Tend helps
Contact Management
Keep track of everyone important in your life with customizable cadence goals.
Event Logging
Log hangouts, calls, and messages to track when you last connected.
Smart Reminders
Get notified when contacts are due or overdue based on your cadence settings.
OOO Scheduling
Mark contacts as away and their due dates automatically adjust.
Tags & Organization
Organize contacts with custom tags and filter by any criteria.
Relationship Stages
Track relationship progression from acquaintance to close friend.
Works with your AI
Tend ships an MCP server, so you can connect Claude — or any MCP-capable assistant — to your real relationships. Ask who you're overdue to see, log a hangout from a conversation, or plan a week of catch-ups without opening the app.
Part of Done Intentionally
Tend is one of a family of small apps for living intentionally — tasks, friends, time, and beliefs, sharing one account and connected to each other and to your AI.
Tasks, done intentionally
Friends, done intentionally
Time, done intentionally
Beliefs, done intentionally